It is with an overwhelming sadness that I share this blog post but it may serve as an explanation as to why I haven’t been around much.

Last Thursday (25th August) a day arrived that I never wanted to see: I lost probably the most influential person (and certainly the one I have been the closest to for my whole life), my Grandad Wilf.

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At 97 years and 1 month, he had put in a remarkable 35,473 days on this Earth and in that time he had done everything he possibly could to make me and others happy. Only in January was he congratulated for his work with a local charity, being the oldest and longest serving fundraiser (20+ years, AFTER retirement) and raising over Β£150,000. He was very fussy to be interviewed on the radio!

Although his passing was expected (he had declined in health since a stroke in May), it is nonetheless heartbreaking for me and my Mum. If I was not visiting every other day, I was on the phone to him: there are countless days that other than Sam, he would be the only person I would speak to all day, so this is going to take some adjustment.

Which means I might not be posting, reading or commenting as much at the moment: I don’t really feel like…doing. However, whilst it may be adieu to my G-Pa, it is only au revoir to you, my readers. I will check in when I can, as I will welcome the distraction, but at least you know why I’m absent.

So I shall leave you now with a re-share of my post from my Grandad’s birthday last year, showing some vintage photos of his youth. And although he missed it by two days, I can be happy in the knowledge that his favourite rugby team, Hull FC, won the Challenge Cup yesterday for the first time in 11 years. πŸ™‚ We will be singing ‘Old Faithful’ in his and their honour for days.

[Insert famous Arnold Schwarzeneggar quote here].

15th July 2015: This week’s Void of Rainbows is a special post and one where I can’t claim credit for all the images. Today is my grandfather’s 96th birthday, so I thought I’d share some of my favourite images of him from his youth.

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I’ve always loved old portrait photographs and the feelings they evoke, but things I’ve found they have in common are the dour expressions of the subjects and their formal posing. However, the small collection I’ve shared (dating between the early 1930s and late 1940s) seem to have more life about them, being more candid, relaxed or fun. But perhaps I’m just biased as I know the personality in front of the lens! So here’s a brief history of my grandad, so you know who you’re looking at πŸ™‚ …

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Born just days after troops finally returned home following the end of WW1, it’s astounding to think how much he has seen the world change. Yet always embracing new ideas and technology, my G-Pa has never seemed like the pensioner he always has been within my lifetime. I certainly can’t call him a typical nonagenarian when he’s surfing the web on his iPad or playing Angry Birds!

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After being badly burned in a fire as a baby, he went on to do some amateur modelling, often posing in costumes or as the main subject for his best friend who was a keen photographer (Miles is the man responsible for all but two of the images here). He was stationed in various places during WW2 within the RAF, repairing planes after bombing raids and helping to install and prepare airbases for allied US troops to occupy in southern England. It was here he was honoured to meet the Hollywood actor, James Stewart, who was stationed at the same base.


As the war ended, my grandfather was initially unable to celebrate, believing he was being sent overseas to Burma. However, once he returned from leave granted for V.E. Day, he discovered it was a mistake and was promptly sent back to London, having been discharged for his length of service. He went on to take a job with the now defunct Mi7 (I tell everyone he trained spies…I’d like to think he was a UK Shield Agent or something!) until a change in family circumstances sent him back north to where he was born.

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Even after retirement, he remained active, biking everywhere and keeping fitter than most 30 year olds with 100 press-ups a day…right up until his legs finally told him enough was enough three years ago! Now, with the help of his iPad, he continues to keep his mind active and is passionate about history. He is fascinated by digital photography and the images it can create, often poring over them for hours, pinching and zooming for a closer look.


I’d like to think this post celebrates not only turning another year older, but also our place in history, however small, the achievements in technology and how that has shaped us as humans and of course all the armed forces around the world that have kept (and continue to keep) us safe.

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So I hope you’ll join me in wishing my grandfather a wonderful birthday and remember that it’s the mindset that determines old age, not the number!

Image Credits: ‘Miles’ and my own…please be sweet and ask before sharing! πŸ™‚

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49 thoughts on “Adieu…

  1. Haylee, I’m so sorry for your loss. Your grandad sounds like a great guy and wonderful person to have had in your life. And know for my mourning. I will miss you online. You have a delightful personality that always makes me smile.

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    1. Aww, thank you Phil 😊 He was awesome and I am very lucky to have had him in my life at all, let alone for as long as I did.
      I’m starting to feel a little better and have really missed writing so I’m hoping to get some posts together this weekend – it won’t be long before I’m back blogging.

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  2. Loved to “meet” your dear Grandfather , what an interesting and full life he led up until his very last days . Please do accept my very late condolences . We are so sorry to see our precious grandparents go (and even more so when we share such a special relationship like the one you had with your grandfather and me with my grandmother) but we are oh so lucky to have had them in our lives and for all we learned with them .
    Hugs Haylee

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    1. Thank you, your words mean a lot 😊 It was his funeral yesterday so things are still very raw but like you say, he led a long and full life and I was exceptionally lucky to have him (and my nana when she was alive) as such a big influence in my life.

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  3. A lovely post Haylee and what a wonderful grandad you were lucky to have such a special bond with. Big hugs coming to you again and you know where I am if you need a shoulder or an ear….xx

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  4. I am so sorry for your loss. That’s a lovely picture of you and your grandpa. I am sure, from how you have described your relationship, that though isn’t physically around, he will be with you forever. A big hug as you go through this difficult time.

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  5. So sorry to hear of your loss Haylee! Take care lovely and I hope your happy memories help you through the darker days! You were lucky to have each other and I am willing to bet he loved you just as dearly xxxxx

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  6. So sorry to hear your sad news Haylee. What a wonderful man he was. You are so lucky to have had him in your life for so long. May the happy memories far outweigh the grief. Love and hugs.

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    1. Thank you for the kind words πŸ™‚ I’m sure the great memories I have will help in the long run, it’s just a little too raw at the moment. But yes, I was very fortunate for him to have been such a big part of my life for such a long time.

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  7. Haylee. My deepest sympathies and a huge, huge hug for you. Remember, his physical being isn’t with you anymore but his spirit and memory will live on for as long as you want it to. He lived a wonderful and long life and you were blessed. Go and grieve. You need it. And when you are ready you will be back and I will be waiting! Love to you and your family…

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    1. Thank you Catherine ☺️ He had put in a very good innings, as one of my friends said, although I think he would have secretly liked to hang around another three years so he could get his telegram from the Queen! I hopefully won’t be away too long, I think the blog will be a help.

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  8. So sorry to hear of your sad loss Haylee. I didn’t see your post last year, what a lovely tribute to your Grandad. Kind wishes to you and your mum.

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